verb
adopt
uh-DAHPT/əˈdɑːpt/
To take someone or something as one's own.
The parents welcome the child they adopt at the courthouse.

Etymology
The pieces express choosing someone for oneself. Latin already used the combined verb for taking a child into a family, the connection preserved in the English sense of legally becoming a child's parent.
In context
in in their world they didn't adopt uh daughters really. That would be for the benefit of the daughter but not for the benefit of taking over the family in their structure.
More examples
- The team adopts a simpler approach to the problem.
- Her parents adopted her when she was an infant.
- The council is adopting new rules for outdoor markets.