DictionaryagonizeIntense suffering
verb

agonize

AG-uh-nyze/ˈæɡənaɪz/

To experience or cause intense pain or distress.

She agonizes over whether to accept the distant job offer.

An adult sits at a small table with hands pressed to temples, face deeply worried while considering two plain undecorated envelopes laid before them; intense mental struggle, no writing, financial figures or diagnosis.
Etymology

Greek agōnizesthai meant to contend in a struggle. English agonize moved from inflicting torment to suffering extreme physical pain, and then to intense mental worry.

In context

Steubenville Conferences42:52
most women who have abortions you think there's something they want you think they don't agonize over that you think they don't sit there and cry about it and think about it
Patrick Madrid - Speaking the Truth in Love as an Act of Mercy - 2018 Defending the Faith Conference

More examples

  • He agonized for weeks before selling the family home.
  • The uncertainty continued to agonize the waiting families.
  • They are agonizing over a decision with no easy answer.

Forms

agonize · agonizes · agonized · agonizing

agony noun — Intense physical pain or mental distress.

Similar words

worry
Can describe much milder anxiety or repeated concern.
torment
Emphasizes causing severe suffering rather than struggling over a decision.