DictionaryambivalenceConflicting feelings
noun

ambivalence

am-BIV-uh-luns/æmˈbɪvələns/

Mixed or contradictory feelings about someone or something.

His affection for the puppy and dismay at the ruined slipper reveal ambivalence.

A man tenderly presses his cheek against his puppy while examining a slipper it has shredded.
Etymology

The combination suggests strength on both sides: opposing feelings are present together rather than one simply replacing the other. Coined as a psychological term, ambivalence broadened into the everyday description of mixed feelings.

In context

TEDx Talks4:01
how do we understand this group and how do we control them and what it did was create a conflict and ambivalence about how to understand children
Solving the Youth Crime ‘Problem' | Stephen Case | TEDxLoughboroughU

More examples

  • His smile concealed ambivalence about the promotion.
  • The survey revealed public ambivalence toward the proposal.
  • Her affection and resentment revealed deep ambivalence.

Forms

ambivalence

ambivalent adjective — having conflicting feelings

Similar words

indifference
Indifference means little concern; ambivalence means conflicting feelings, often strongly held.
uncertainty
Uncertainty is lack of sure knowledge or choice; ambivalence specifically involves mixed attitudes.