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verb

commiserate

kuh-MIZ-uh-rayt/kəˈmɪzəreɪt/

To express sympathy for someone's trouble or sorrow.

The woman commiserates with the injured man, resting a hand on his shoulder.

A woman expresses sympathy to a dejected man with a visibly injured leg, sitting beside him with a concerned expression and a gentle hand on his shoulder.
Etymology

With com- perhaps adding emphasis, Latin miserari ('lament') formed a verb meaning 'pity' or 'bewail.' The English sense focuses that sorrow on another person's misfortune, expressed as sympathy.

In context

Stogie Review5:23
>> That is quite unfortunate. >> At least you uh can commiserate with us with how cold it is.
He is Putting a Cigar Vending Machine in a Liquor Store? | Smoke & Steel Ep. 33

More examples

  • We commiserated over our canceled vacations.
  • She commiserates with her neighbor, whose dog recently died.
  • Thanks for commiserating with me about my terrible week.

Forms

commiserate · commiserates · commiserated · commiserating

commiseration noun — Expression of sympathy for someone's troubles.

Similar words

sympathize
Can mean feeling sympathy without expressing it to someone.
console
Focuses on easing someone's sadness rather than sharing it.