DictionarydiscreetCareful and tactful
adjective

discreet

dih-SKREET/dɪˈskriːt/

Careful not to cause embarrassment or attract unwanted attention.

The host makes a discreet comment about the guest's loose button.

A tactful host quietly points out a guest's loose coat button away from other guests, discreet helpful whisper and privacy.
Etymology

Separating or distinguishing led to the idea of discernment and sound judgment. That judgment connects the roots to being prudent and tactful, especially in avoiding mistakes or embarrassment.

In context

History Sphere8:10
his inability to keep his drinking problem discreet, was a source of national embarrassment.
The End of History Part 44: The Apparatchik

More examples

  • She kept the conversation discreet.
  • A discreet reminder saved him embarrassment.
  • They asked for a discreet investigation.

Forms

discreet · discreeter · discreetest

discreetly adverb — without attracting unwanted attention

discretion noun — careful judgment about what to reveal

Similar words

tactful
Emphasizes avoiding offense in dealing with people.
unobtrusive
Emphasizes not attracting attention.