DictionarydissembleConcealing through pretense
verb

dissemble

dih-SEM-bul/dɪˈsembl/

To hide true feelings or motives by pretending.

She dissembles at dinner, pretending not to mind the criticism.

White woman smiles politely while hidden hand crumples paper behind her back, concealed anger.
Etymology

Imitation becomes a means of concealment: presenting a false appearance masks what is real. To dissemble is therefore to hide one's actual thoughts, feelings, or intentions behind a misleading seeming.

In context

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But why should not I tell thee outright that which troubles me? I am not used, at least for these many years, to dissemble.
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More examples

  • He dissembles his disappointment with a polite smile.
  • They dissembled their motives by claiming they wanted to help.
  • Instead of dissembling, she admits that the decision upsets her.

Forms

dissemble · dissembles · dissembled · dissembling

dissembler noun — Someone who hides true feelings through pretense.

Similar words

conceal
Means hiding something, without necessarily using pretense to do so.
feign
Emphasizes the feeling or condition pretended, rather than what is hidden.