DictionaryeffeteLacking vitality
adjective

effete

ih-FEET/ɪˈfiːt/

Weak and lacking vitality.

The effete man struggles to lift a small watering can beside the vigorous gardener.

Overrefined wealthy adult man in immaculate formal clothes struggles to lift a small garden watering can while sturdy ordinary gardener works nearby, lack of practical vigor, no caricature or sexual coding.
Etymology

The components originally concerned bringing forth offspring; Latin effetus described being worn out or past bearing. Physical exhaustion became intellectual or moral exhaustion, then decadent refinement and lack of vigor.

In context

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Russia has no use for an effete ally such as England is." "Effete or powerful, my country is still able to present an ultimatum when diplomacy requires it," I said.
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More examples

  • His effete prose lacks the energy of his earlier novels.
  • The once vigorous movement now seems effete and directionless.
  • She dismisses the exclusive club as an effete relic.

Forms

effete

effeteness noun — The condition of lacking strength or vitality.

Similar words

weak
Broadly describes insufficient strength, without suggesting excessive refinement or decline.
enervated
Emphasizes depleted energy rather than excessive refinement or decadence.
decadent
Emphasizes decline through luxury or indulgence rather than weakness alone.