DictionaryflatteryInsincere praise
noun

flattery

FLAT-er-ee/ˈflætəri/

Excessive or insincere praise meant to gain favor.

The visitor's sudden applause is flattery, offered only when the painter arrives.

Flattery shown through a visitor's abrupt change from dismissing a painting in private to lavishly applauding it when its proud painter arrives.
Etymology

Flaterie already meant cajolery: praise used to coax or win someone over. Its related verb also meant caressing and deceiving, though that verb’s deeper origin is uncertain.

In context

Libertarianism.org4:27
… it was by using the bewitching engine of flattery that rulers appealed to the natural vanity of human beings by persuading them that they were rational creatures …
Excursions, Ep. 155: Self-Interest and Social Order: Bernard Mandeville v. Francis Hutcheson

More examples

  • His flattery does not fool anyone at the meeting.
  • I want honest feedback, not flattery.
  • The salesperson's flattery makes me question every compliment.

Forms

flattery · flatteries

flatter verb — Praise excessively or insincerely to gain favor.

flatterer noun — Someone who praises others insincerely for personal advantage.

Similar words

cajolery
Persuasive praise or coaxing aimed at overcoming someone's reluctance.
adulation
Excessive admiration that may be sincere rather than manipulative.