DictionaryflirtPlayful attraction
verb / noun

flirt

FLURT/flɜːrt/

To show playful interest without committing seriously.

They flirt over coffee, exchanging playful smiles and amused glances.

Two adults exchange playful mutually engaged smiles over coffee, one leans forward with amused eye contact, relaxed respectful body language, no hearts or text.
Etymology

Earlier uses described flicking and quick, inconstant movement. The courtship sense probably developed through the noun for a flighty person, though a direct shift from inconstant movement is also possible.

In context

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More examples

  • She flirts with him, but neither expects a relationship.
  • He's a flirt who enjoys exchanging compliments and playful looks.
  • We flirted with the idea of moving but decided to stay.

Forms

flirt · flirts · flirted · flirting

flirtation noun — Playful romantic interest without serious commitment.

flirtatious adjective — Showing playful romantic or sexual interest.

Similar words

tease
Emphasizes playful provocation, which need not express romantic interest.
woo
Suggests actively seeking affection, often with more serious intentions.