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verb

groom

To prepare someone gradually for an intended role.

The director grooms her assistant to take over the department.

Etymology

A groom was an attendant, especially one caring for horses. The verb’s preparation sense extends careful tending to developing a person for a future position.

More examples

  • The coach is grooming a young player to become team captain.
  • They groomed their daughter to run the family business.
  • The abuser groomed the teenager by gradually gaining her trust.

Forms

groom · grooms · groomed · grooming

Similar words

prepare
Covers making someone ready, without implying a gradual, sustained process.
train
Emphasizes teaching specific skills rather than cultivating a future successor.
mentor
Emphasizes guidance and support, without necessarily targeting a particular role.