DictionarygrudgeLasting resentment
noun / verb

grudge

GRUJ/ɡrʌdʒ/

Resentment directed toward someone over something regarded as unfair.

He holds a grudge long after she repairs his plant pot.

A compact three-moment sequence shows a man maintaining resentment toward a woman who broke his cherished plant pot, rejecting her friendly gestures after the pot has been repaired and seasons have changed.
Etymology

The starting meaning was “to murmur or grumble.” The noun shifted attention from expressing a complaint to the ill will behind it—the resentment someone continues to hold.

In context

MooLer62:10
Aquaman just like mercilessly slaughtering all of the people that he is going to eventually be leading who I guess maybe they did hold a grudge over that
EFAP #267 - A complete breakdown of Aquaman 2: The Lost Kingdom

More examples

  • She bears a grudge against her boss for overlooking her work.
  • They settle their old grudges and become friends again.
  • I don't grudge her the promotion; she deserves it.

Forms

grudge · grudges · grudged · grudging

grudging adjective — Given or done with reluctance or resentment.

Similar words

resentment
Anger over unfair treatment, not necessarily a lasting personal grievance.
bitterness
Deep anger or disappointment, not necessarily directed at someone.
begrudge
More commonly expresses resenting someone's advantage or giving unwillingly.