verb
harrow
HAIR-oh/hˈæroʊ/
To distress or torment someone deeply.
The damage to the home harrows the woman clutching a family photograph.

Etymology
Tearing soil with a harrow became a metaphor for tearing at someone's feelings.
To distress or torment someone deeply.
The damage to the home harrows the woman clutching a family photograph.

Tearing soil with a harrow became a metaphor for tearing at someone's feelings.