DictionaryinsteadAs an alternative
adverb

instead

in-STED/ɪnˈsted/

As an alternative or substitute.

She chooses fresh fruit instead of the offered cake.

A diner chooses a bowl of fresh fruit as an alternative to a slice of cake being offered, clear substitution, no words.
Etymology

The pieces mean “in the place”: an alternative occupies the place assigned to something else. That idea of taking another's position gives the meaning “as a substitute.”

In context

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More examples

  • She could not come, so her brother came instead.
  • Use a spoon instead of a fork.
  • I chose the blue shirt instead.

Forms

instead

Similar words

alternatively
Often introduces another option rather than an actual substitution.
rather
Often expresses choosing one option over another within a contrast.