DictionarymistressSexual partner
noun

mistress

MIS-trus/ˈmɪstrəs/

A woman having a sexual relationship with a married person other than her spouse.

The married man shares a quiet dinner with his mistress.

Discreet romantic dinner between adult woman and married man with visible wedding band, no nudity.
Etymology

The feminine of “master” could denote a woman in authority or a female lover. In the selected sense, the lover meaning is narrowed to a woman involved with someone married.

In context

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History says the rancher was having an affair and the rancher's wife killed him and his mistress
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More examples

  • She discovers that her husband has a mistress.
  • His mistress ends their relationship after years of secrecy.
  • He denies that the woman is his mistress.

Forms

mistress · mistresses

Similar words

lover
Does not imply that either person is married.
affair partner
Can describe someone of any gender in an unfaithful relationship.