DictionaryofficiousIntrusively helpful or bossy
adjective

officious

uh-FISH-uhs/əˈfɪʃəs/

Too eager to offer unwanted help or tell others what to do.

The officious coworker rearranges supplies despite the man's clear wish to be left alone.

An over-eager coworker intrudes on a man's tidy workspace, reaching to rearrange his supplies while pointing instructions; the man protects his workspace with a polite but firm stop gesture.
Etymology

Being full of service once suggested being dutiful and eager to help. The meaning turned negative when that eagerness became doing more than was asked or required.

In context

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More examples

  • The officious clerk insists on filling out the form for me.
  • She finds his constant reminders officious rather than helpful.
  • An officious guest starts assigning seats at someone else's dinner party.

Forms

officious · more officious · most officious

officiously adverb — In an intrusively helpful or bossy way.

officiousness noun — Excessive eagerness to help or direct others.

Similar words

meddlesome
Emphasizes interfering in matters that are not one's business.
bossy
Emphasizes giving orders rather than offering intrusive help.
overbearing
Emphasizes dominating others through an unpleasantly forceful manner.