DictionarypleasantryPolite or amusing remark
noun

pleasantry

PLEZ-un-tree/ˈplezntri/

A polite, lighthearted remark.

The neighbor offers a warm pleasantry while passing the garden gate.

A brief, warm conversational exchange between two neighbors passing at a garden gate: one speaks with a modest smile and relaxed open hand, while the other pauses and returns an appreciative smile.
Etymology

The base carries a witty or jocular sense as well as “pleasant”: a pleasantry was a light, humorous saying. That conversational lightness connects it with the modern polite or friendly remark.

In context

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More examples

  • We exchange pleasantries while we wait for the elevator.
  • After a few pleasantries, the interview begins.
  • His gentle pleasantry puts the nervous guests at ease.

Forms

pleasantry · pleasantries

Similar words

quip
Usually sharper and wittier, rather than simply polite.
joke
Primarily aims to amuse rather than maintain polite conversation.