DictionaryquandaryUncertainty about what to do
noun

quandary

KWAHN-duh-ree/ˈkwɑːndəri/

A state of uncertainty about what to do.

The fork in the path leaves him in a quandary about which way to go.

An older man pauses at an equally passable fork in a walking path, looking between its two branches with a furrowed brow, one hand at his chin and the other held uncertainly outward.
Etymology

Quandary originally described great difficulty or perplexity. Its origin is unknown; a tentative connection with Latin quando, “when?”, does not establish how it came to mean uncertainty about what to do.

In context

Writing with Andrew4:43
the perennial quandary of stress. Now, I've been in enough poetry classes, both as a student and teacher, to have heard people complain loudly about the difficulties of finding stressed and unstressed syllables.
Don't Stress Stress: Syllabic and Accentual Verse (Poetic Meter pt. 1)

More examples

  • I am in a quandary about whether to stay or leave.
  • The unexpected expense creates a real quandary for the family.
  • He explains his quandary to a trusted friend.

Forms

quandary · quandaries

Similar words

dilemma
Usually involves choosing between difficult alternatives.
predicament
A predicament is a difficult situation; a quandary emphasizes not knowing how to respond.