DictionaryseemlyProper and appropriate
adjective

seemly

SEEM-lee/ˈsiːmli/

Proper and suited to the occasion.

Offering an older guest a seat is a seemly gesture.

An East Asian teenager respectfully offers a seat to an older white woman in a formal gathering, polite decorum.
Etymology

The probable Norse ancestor meant 'becoming' or 'honorable.' Its idea of being suited to an occasion or purpose survives in the judgment that someone's conduct is proper and socially acceptable.

In context

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It was not seemly—or even possible—to hale Valancy doctorwards by physical force.
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More examples

  • She chooses a seemly outfit for the memorial service.
  • They keep their disagreement within seemly limits.
  • He waits for a seemly moment to leave.

Forms

seemly · seemlier · seemliest

seemliness noun — Propriety or suitability in behavior or appearance.

unseemly adjective — Not proper, fitting, or socially acceptable.

Similar words

proper
Emphasizes conformity to accepted standards rather than a particular occasion.
decorous
Emphasizes dignified, restrained behavior, especially in formal social settings.
appropriate
Emphasizes suitability generally, without necessarily implying good manners.