DictionarysufferanceReluctant permission
noun

sufferance

SUF-runs/ˈsʌfrəns/

Permission given without approval.

The homeowner lets a neighbor retrieve the ball on sufferance.

A middle-aged East Asian homeowner reluctantly holds a garden gate open while a neighbor retrieves a ball; pressed lips and resigned raised palm show unwilling toleration rather than welcome.
Etymology

The “under” and “bear” components lead to enduring or putting up with something. Sufferance applies this to permission: allowing something by not forbidding it, rather than willingly approving it.

In context

Adam Conover32:21
if these people here are here they're here on sufferance because we allow them to be and if they raise their heads well you know
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More examples

  • We use the driveway on sufferance, not by legal right.
  • Their guests remain on sufferance after wearing out their welcome.
  • The club allows nonmembers inside only on sufferance.

Forms

sufferance

tolerate verb — Permit something disliked without stopping it.

Similar words

toleration
Emphasizes enduring something disliked, not necessarily granting permission.
permission
Allows an action without implying any reluctance or disapproval.