DictionarytactSensitivity toward others
noun

tact

TAKT/tækt/

Skill in saying or doing things without offending others.

With tact, the host copies her guest's spill to spare him embarrassment.

A dinner host tactfully makes a small matching spill after her guest spills water, sparing him the embarrassment of being singled out.
Etymology

The physical sense of touch became a figurative sensitivity to what is best to say or do. Tact applies that fine discernment to conduct, especially avoiding offense.

In context

Old Time Radio Researchers15:58
You'll have to excuse my lack of tact. Never been a sister-in-law before and I'm at a loss.
Suspense - Suspense 480221 285 Beyond Reason (64-44) 28709 1 59m52s

More examples

  • He corrected his manager with tact, avoiding any hint of mockery.
  • It takes tact to decline homemade food without insulting the cook.
  • Her blunt questions about his divorce showed a lack of tact.

Forms

tact

tactful adjective — careful not to offend or embarrass others

tactless adjective — insensitive to others' feelings when speaking or acting

Similar words

diplomacy
Often involves managing disagreements between people or groups.
sensitivity
Emphasizes awareness of others' feelings rather than skillful responses.