DictionaryurbaneSocially polished
adjective

urbane

ur-BAYN/ɜːrˈbeɪn/

Polished and graceful in social situations.

Our urbane host makes everyone feel comfortable at the dinner table.

A polished adult courteously helps another guest settle into a chair during a formal reception; attentive refined manners, no wealth-as-moral-worth message.
Etymology

Built on urbs ‘city,’ urbane moved from ‘belonging to a city’ to ‘having refined city manners.’ The modern sense preserves that association between town life and polished, courteous behavior.

In context

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More examples

  • Her urbane manner puts nervous guests at ease.
  • Even during awkward conversations, he remains urbane and charming.
  • She handles the unexpected question with an urbane smile.

Forms

urbane · more urbane · most urbane

urbanity noun — Polish and grace in social situations.

urbanely adverb — In a socially polished, graceful manner.

Similar words

suave
Emphasizes smooth charm, sometimes suggesting calculated or insincere behavior.
sophisticated
Emphasizes worldly experience and refined tastes rather than social grace.
polished
Describes refinement in manners or performance, not just social ease.