pronoun

whom

The object form of who, especially in formal writing or speech.

To whom should I address this letter of recommendation?

Etymology

Whom continues an inflected form of the old interrogative pronoun. Modern formal grammar uses it for object rather than subject position.

More examples

  • Whom do you trust to handle the negotiations?
  • The colleague with whom I share an office is retiring.
  • She is the person whom we all admire.

Similar words

who
Often replaces whom in informal questions and relative clauses.