DictionarycondescensionPatronizing superiority
noun

condescension

kahn-dih-SEN-shun/ˌkɑːndɪˈsenʃn/

Treating others as beneath oneself.

She answers my simple question with a tone of condescension.

An adult talks down to another adult with a dismissive tilted chin and small lecturing finger, listener visibly exasperated, neutral office props.
Etymology

Literally an act of climbing down, condescension first described voluntarily meeting inferiors as equals. The modern attitude retains the implied difference in rank but makes the gesture of equality seem patronizing rather than generous.

In context

Enhanced Public Domain58:33
John meets his distinguished guest at the door effusively yet with that smiling condescension which wealthy trustees sometimes show to scientists College professors and that sort of thing
1910s Play: Jesse Lynch Williams - Why Marry? (Audiobook)

More examples

  • His praise sounds like condescension when he calls our work surprisingly good.
  • The instructor explains basic concepts without a trace of condescension.
  • I resent the condescension in your suggestion that I need adult supervision.

Forms

condescension

condescend verb — Treat others as less intelligent or important.

condescending adjective — Showing a patronizing attitude toward others.

Similar words

arrogance
Emphasizes exaggerated self-importance rather than talking down to others.
disdain
Emphasizes contempt rather than a patronizing show of helpfulness.