noun
decorum
dih-KOR-um/dɪˈkɔːrəm/
Proper, dignified behavior suited to a situation.
The mourners show decorum by standing quietly with respectful, composed postures.

Etymology
Latin decorum named “what is fitting.” Applied first to literary or artistic composition in English, it came to describe the same appropriateness in speech, dress, and behavior.
In context
modern usage equates civility with decorum, with formal politeness, formal behavior. We've gotten away from the idea of citizenship.
More examples
- Even when they disagree, committee members speak with decorum.
- Shouting across the table shows a lack of decorum.
- Guests observe the decorum expected at a formal ceremony.
Forms
decorous adjective — Proper and dignified in behavior or appearance.