noun
dichotomy
dye-KAH-tuh-mee/daɪˈkɑːtəmi/
A division into two contrasting or branching parts.
The divided tray presents a dichotomy between black counters and white counters.

Etymology
The image is of cutting something in two. Applied to ideas or categories, this became a division into two sharply contrasting classes.
In context
it's called the false dichotomy. And essentially, almost anytime, not quite anytime, but almost anytime you see people breaking a question into two possible answers, it's either this or that
More examples
- Her essay explores the dichotomy between public image and private life.
- The survey forces complex opinions into a simple yes-or-no dichotomy.
- Real communities rarely fit such neat dichotomies.
Forms
dichotomy · dichotomies
dichotomous adjective — Divided into two distinct or opposing parts.