DictionaryreciprocateResponding in kind
verb

reciprocate

rih-SIP-ruh-kayt/rɪˈsɪprəkeɪt/

To return an action or feeling with a similar one.

When neighbors help us, we try to reciprocate their kindness.

Two successive vignettes: woman gives neighbor a basket of apples; neighbor later returns basket with bread.
Etymology

Latin reciprocare describes movement back and forth. Reciprocate applies that returning motion to social responses: an action or feeling is answered with a similar one.

In context

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you need to reciprocate you need to respond positively to offers of cooperation but also respond negatively it is to some degree to defections
Game Theory: Problems with Tit for Tat

More examples

  • He loves her, but she does not reciprocate his feelings.
  • I smile at the cashier, and she reciprocates.
  • They invited us to dinner, so we reciprocated the following weekend.

Forms

reciprocate · reciprocates · reciprocated · reciprocating

reciprocation noun — Returning an action or feeling in kind.

reciprocal adjective — Given or felt by both sides toward each other.

Similar words

return
Return is broader and also describes giving something back.
repay
Repay emphasizes responding to a favor, kindness, or debt.