verb

temper

To make something less extreme or forceful.

She tempers her criticism with a few words of praise.

Etymology

The Latin verb concerns adjusting proportions. Tempering something reduces its excessive strength by bringing it into a more balanced condition.

More examples

  • Cloud cover tempers the afternoon heat.
  • The coach tempered expectations before the team's first game.
  • We need to temper our enthusiasm with caution.

Forms

temper · tempers · tempered · tempering

moderation noun — The avoidance of extremes or excess.

Similar words

moderate
Broadly means reducing intensity, severity, or excess.
soften
Emphasizes making something less harsh, severe, or unpleasant.
restrain
Emphasizes holding something back rather than balancing its force.